Spouse Won’t Have Sex

by Paul <>< Elsewhere we discuss why it is wrong to refuse sex, but what do you do if your spouse chooses to say no? We get several private letters a month from men and women living in a sexless or near sexless marriages against their will. These individuals...

Solo Masturbation in Marriage

Solo Masturbation in Marriage by Paul The information here comes in part from a couple of online surveys we did. The first important question then is how accurate are those surveys, do they represent married Christians as a whole? As the surveys were not done from a...

Sexual Addiction

by Lori <>< “Sexual addiction” is a common term today, but there is a great deal of debate about the accuracy of the term. Here we will talk about sexual compulsions to describe a very real problem that can be extremely destructive, both to the individual and...

Rapid Ejaculation

Premature Ejaculation by Paul There are many definitions of rapid or premature ejaculation (PE). Some say it’s when a man can’t prolong intercourse long enough for his wife to climax. Does this mean a man who can last half an hour is premature if his wife...

Pastor’s Views

A Pastor’s Thoughts on Masturbation by guest author anonymous pastor We would like to have more pastors and Christian leaders comment on this issue, and yes, we will post comments from those who do not agree with us. You may remain anonymous, but please give us...