Breaking the Silence

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Breaking the Silence by guest author Ruth Buezis speaking the truth about sex The first time I invited Christian friends to my house for a sex class, I was scared to death. Who does something like that? Nobody talks about sex in the church. And if they do, it revolves...

What’s Okay, What’s Not?

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by Paul & Lori We are often asked questions like “Is oral sex okay?” or “My husband wants to make a video of us in the bedroom. Is this a sin?” The reason we get so many of these questions is because the Bible does not specifically address...

Pastor’s Views

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A Pastor’s Thoughts on Masturbation by guest author anonymous pastor We would like to have more pastors and Christian leaders comment on this issue, and yes, we will post comments from those who do not agree with us. You may remain anonymous, but please give us...

How Far Before Marriage?

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by Paul <>< what’s okay, what’s not, and why How far can you go without a marriage license? It would be really nice if the Bible said “with thy lips together thou may kiss, but with thy lips parted thou shalt not kiss” or “above the waist you shall touch...

Generosity – a Virtuous Cycle

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by Paul & Lori We all know about vicious cycles, in which negative things create a feedback loop that causes things to get increasing worse and worse. In marriage, selfishness can start a vicious cycle that causes the couple to be less and less loving and more and...