While oral sex is not sinful for a married couple, it is a form of sex, and as such is wrong for two people who are not married to each other. Many today belive that things like oral sex and manual sex are not "real sex," that only intercourse is real sex. We suspect these same folks would have a very different idea if they were married and found out that their husband or wife were engaging in oral sex with someone other than themselves.

God, who created our sexuality, gives us limits on our sexuality. God does not prohibit oral sex and other sexual acts between unmarried couples to limit their fun. Rather such acts are prohibited because God knows that they open us up to a lot of pain, and can result in us making very bad decisions.