Masturbation Q & A

MASTURBATION Q AND A This began as answers to a number of arguments against masturbation that were submitted anonymously by one person. We have since added to and altered the article. Anything in black is from Paul and/or Lori, while things in blue are…

Why Wait?

WHY WAIT? Lori Byerly To singles … … what you are doing now will effect your married sexuality, either for good or bad. What you do or don’t do can make the difference between a wonderful, happy marriage and a marriage with regrets and…

Teens and Masturbation

IS MASTURBATION A SIN? For teens and their parents Dale Kaufman Guest Author The following article was written by Dale Kaufman, a married father of two boys, a youth pastor of over 30 years, and a member of The Marriage Bed’s board of directors….

Setting the Scene

SETTING THE SCENE Lori Byerly Making love with your spouse should be a joyous, exciting time. Here are some things to consider in making your private time more comfortable and enjoyable. Privacy Get a lock for your bedroom door or choose places where you…

Masturbation in Marriage

MASTURBATION IN MARRIAGE Paul H. Byerly In other parts of this section, we have stated that we do not see masturbation as inherently sinful for singles. But what about for those who are married? Before we dig in, let’s define some terms. When we…

The Three S's

THE THREE S’S Three things to do naked that need not end in sex Paul H. Byerly Physical intimacy in marriage should be a lifestyle, a wide array of activates from full on love making to loving play with just a touch of sexuality…

Pastor's Views

PASTOR’S THOUGHTS ON MASTURBATION Various Pastors and LeadersGuest Authors We would like to have more pastors and Christian leaders comment on this issue, and yes, we will post comments from those who do not agree with us. Use the contact button at the bottom…

Non-sexual Massage

NON-SEXUAL MASSAGE Intimate touch for all wives; but especially victims of sexual abuse. Paul H. Byerly Touch is very important for all of us, as it affects our bodies and minds in profound ways (see article on Oxytocin). The same attitudes, fears or damage…

Full Body Sexual Massage

FULL BODY, SEXUAL, MASSAGE Paul H. Byerly Notes: This article is for couples where the wife does not have significant sexual problems. If she has “sexual hang-ups,” and especially if she has unresolved sexual abuse in her past, please see the non-sexual massage article….

Better Sex 4 Him

BETTER SEX FOR HIM Paul H. Byerly This article is for the wife who wants her man to enjoy sex to the fullest. Some husbands are having a lot more fun in bed than others. Are these fellows different, or can other men enjoy…