The G-Spot

In 1982 Dr. John D. Perry, Beverly Whipple & Alice Kahn Ladas published “The G-Spot,” a book which created a great deal of controversy (aff link to updated version). Perry and company said there was an area in the vagina which responded to stimulation,…

The Anatomy of Female Arousal

Our bodies go through a number of changes during sex. Understanding these changes can help us understand both our sexuality and that of our spouse. This article looks at women. You can read about men’s arousal here. Before we look at how a woman’s…

Oxytocin

the bridge between touch and sex Touch is so vital to humans and most of us don’t get nearly enough of it. Babies deprived of touch don’t develop normally because certain connections in the brain actually disappear. Orphans who receive very, very little touch…

Noise to Signal Ratio

Signal to noise ratio is an electronics term – let me explain it using AM radio. The signal is the program you want to listen to, the noise is the static caused by everything from power lines to lightning to sunspots. When the signal…

Kegels

surprise! Back in the 1930s, Dr. Joshua Davies theorized that strengthening the pubococcygeal muscles (PCs) might help women deal with incontinence. In the 40’s Dr. Arnold Kegels created exercises to do just that. As a side effect, a number of patients reported having better…

How Frequency Affects Women

Most people know what happens to a man when sex is infrequent, but many don’t understand how a woman’s body responds to varying levels of sexual frequency. Every woman is unique, and some will not find the following true, but for the majority this…

How Far Before Marriage?

what’s okay, what’s not, and why How far can you go without a marriage license? It would be really nice if the Bible said “with thy lips together thou may kiss, but with thy lips parted thou shalt not kiss” or “above the waist…

Her Bits

The female sex organs (once a mystery few ever saw clearly) are now shown openly by pornographers and paparazzi alike. Ironically, this has lead to more confusion and less understanding. Porn has created a single version of what a woman’s genitals “should” look like…

Female Ejaculation

The following assumes you have already an understanding of the G-spot. Do women ejaculate? Turns out some women do so noticeably and many women do so in amounts so small it goes unnoticed. Reports of women experiencing a “gush” of fluid at orgasm go…

Why Sex?

I like to know, “Why?” And I lean toward the scientific side. When my libido did a Houdini and disappeared, I questioned why a libido was necessary? I went as far as to question why sex was even necessary. My husband and I were done pro-creating…