God Wants You to Be Whole

GOD WANTS YOU TO BE WHOLE Kelly B. Guest Author I was sexually abused repeatedly throughout my childhood and adolescence. I carried the pain and resulting dysfunction into adulthood and my marriage. The one thing that I know for sure and want to share…

Painful Intercourse

PAINFUL INTERCOURSE (DYSPAREUNIA) Paul H. Byerly Sex shouldn’t hurt, but for many women it does. For some it’s minor and/or rare, for others it’s often or always and so bad they come to fear sex. The 1995 “Sex in America” survey found that sexual…

Lack of Desire

LACK OF DESIRE Lori Byerly There are a number of reasons a person might lack sexual desire for their spouse. When you consider that sexual desire starts with what happens between your ears and then is greatly influenced by the marriage relationship itself, it…

Spouse Won't Have Sex

MY SPOUSE WON’T HAVE SEX! Paul H. Byerly Elsewhere we discuss why it is wrong to refuse sex, but what do you do if your spouse chooses to say no? We get several private letters a month from men and women living in a…

How to Get Him to Want Sex

HOW TO TURN ON A SEXUALLY INDIFFERENT HUSBAND Paul and Lori Byerly This article was written primarily by Paul; it’s a male look at how men view sex, and it’s rather blunt. So buckle up and hang on! It is becoming increasingly common to…

How to Get Her to Want Sex

HOW TO TURN ON A SEXUALLY INDIFFERENT WIFE Lori Byerly Article is not available at this time.

Is There Hope After an Affair?

Can Marriage Survive an Affair?

CAN A CHRISTIAN MARRIAGE SURVIVE AN AFFAIR? Nancy C. Anderson Guest Author Can a Christian marriage survive an affair? Yes, mine did! When Ron and I got married in 1978, both of us believed that it was the other person’s job to “make me…