Post-affair Choice

You have a choice after your spouse has an affair By AleciaGuest Author Every day someone finds out that his or her spouse had an affair. It is life changing and relationship changing in every way imaginable. Everyday that person has the agonizing task…

The pill ruins sex?

The Pill Ruins Sex? By Paul & Lori Byerly Elsewhere we have discussed the effectiveness of the pill and other forms of hormonal birth control, and which might destroy a fertilised egg and which do not. Here we would like to warn couples about…

Chronic Masturbation

Chronic Masturbation Paul Byerly What it is Let’s start by defining what makes one a chronic masturbator. Chronic masturbation means masturbating multiple times a day, every day, month after month. The man who masturbates daily, or even twice a day, is not a chronic…

Noise to Signal Ratio

Noise to Signal Ratio By Paul H Byerly Signal to noise ratio is an electronics term – let me explain it using AM radio. The signal is the program you want to listen to, the noise is the static caused by everything from power…

Is There Hope After an Affair?

Is There Hope After an Affair? Richard and HollyGuest Authors Nothing can rock a marriage as horrifically as the infidelity of an extramarital affair. We know, because we have felt the effects of infidelity in our marriage, and we have suffered the pain that…

Survive an Affair?

CAN A CHRISTIAN MARRIAGE SURVIVE AN AFFAIR? Nancy C. Anderson Guest Author Can a Christian marriage survive an affair? Yes, mine did! When Ron and I got married in 1978, both of us believed that it was the other person’s job to “make me…

Problems Section Index

problems section index Front PageStart HereSite Map Desire Lack of Desire Spouse Won’t Have Sex How to Get Him to Want Sex The Pill Ruins Sex? Arousal & Orgasm Women and the Elusive “O” Erectile Difficulty Inhibited Ejaculation Rapid Ejaculation Infidelity Survive an Affair?…

Sexual Addiction

SEXUAL ADDICTION Lori Byerly “Sexual addiction” is a common term today, but there is a great deal of debate about the accuracy of the term. Here we will talk about sexual compulsions to describe a very real problem that can be extremely destructive, both…

The Problem With Porn

WHY PORN IS A PROBLEM Paul H. Byerly Some have inferred what we say about “sexually explicit material ” to mean we are not concerned about pornography. Nothing could be farther from the truth. We see porn as a huge problem, and we know…

Sexual Abuse

SEXUAL ABUSE Lori Byerly Not available at this time.