Do You Think About Sex Too Much

Starving men may think much about food, but so do gluttons. C.S. Lewis In Mere Christianity, C.S. Lewis made this analogy of food to sex, to demonstrate how those obsessed with food or sex are either terribly hungry or overly indulged. I agree. Some…

Women and the Elusive O

We get a lot of E-mail from couples who are struggling because the wife either can’t orgasm or has great difficulty in doing so. Here are some suggestions for dealing with this. give yourself permission to be sexual Some cultures, churches, and families have…

What’s Okay, What’s Not?

We are often asked questions like “Is oral sex okay?” or “My husband wants to make a video of us in the bedroom. Is this a sin?” The reason we get so many of these questions is because the Bible does not specifically address…

The Three S’s

three things to do nakedthat need not end in sex Physical intimacy in marriage should be a lifestyle, a wide array of activates from full-on lovemaking to loving play with just a touch of sexuality on the edge. Here we offer three actives that…

The Mess

A common question from newlyweds is “What do you do about the mess!” Yes, sex is messy; if it isn’t, you’re doing it wrong! Gentlemen need to understand the mess is a bigger problem for their wife than it is for them. They get…

Sex Toys

We discuss why we feel sex toys are not wrong for Christians in our What’s Okay, What’s Not article. In this article, we will look at various sex toys to see how they differ, what they do, and what you can do with them….

Sex Positive Christians

Many see the term “Sex Positive Christians” as an oxymoron. I hope I can convince you it is not, and is, in fact, what God intended. The Center for Sex Positive Culture (CSPC) defines sex positive in the following ways: The sex-positive movement is…

Sex in the Real World

Sex in the real world – your world – doesn’t look like your favorite romantic movie, does it? When you and your husband make love, the lighting isn’t perfect and there’s no carefully-crafted sound overlay of “When a Man Loves a Woman” playing in…

Sex for the Clueless Groom

The article is targeted at men with very little to absolutely no sexual experience or instruction and is intended to be read shortly before the wedding night. For drawings of the genitals and information about the sex organs, see the His Bits and Her Bits…

Sex During & After Pregnancy

In a “normal pregnancy,” (yeah I know, nothing is normal when you’re pregnant) both intercourse and orgasm are normally okay until her water breaks (your mileage may vary, check with your ob/gyn). The baby is VERY well-protected, mom would be unconscious from pain before…