What’s Okay, What’s Not?

We are often asked questions like “Is oral sex okay?” or “My husband wants to make a video of us in the bedroom. Is this a sin?” The reason we get so many of these questions is because the Bible does not specifically address…

Pastor’s Views

We would like to have more pastors and Christian leaders comment on this issue, and yes, we will post comments from those who do not agree with us. You may remain anonymous, but please give us a general idea of who you are. Please…

How Far Before Marriage?

what’s okay, what’s not, and why How far can you go without a marriage license? It would be really nice if the Bible said “with thy lips together thou may kiss, but with thy lips parted thou shalt not kiss” or “above the waist…

Generosity – a Virtuous Cycle

We all know about vicious cycles, where negative things create a feedback loop that causes things to get worse and worse. In marriage, selfishness can start a vicious cycle that causes the couple to be less and less loving and more and more ugly…

Domestic Discipline

at odds with the Word of God Domestic Discipline, or DD, is a lifestyle which is quietly being adopted by a growing number of Christian couples. We have studied DD for a number of years – read books and web sites, talked to couples…

Divorce

In looking at the Old Testament law, divorce was allowed and not specifically called a sin. However, God does say He hates divorce and that alone should give us pause and reason to be careful in how we deal with this topic. With this…

Christian Nudism

We get occasional questions about or from “Christian nudists.” We think the Bible is clear that nudity is to be limited to the marriage relationship, but since no single verse says this it’s not always easy to “prove” this point. The following was received…

Why Sex?

I like to know, “Why?” And I lean toward the scientific side. When my libido did a Houdini and disappeared, I questioned why a libido was necessary? I went as far as to question why sex was even necessary. My husband and I were done pro-creating…

Sexual Generosity

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Sexual Responsibility

Is sex really important in marriage? Has a sex-obsessed society caused Christians to see sex as more important than it is? Or, have Christians reacted against the sex-obsessed society by downplaying how critical sex is for married couples? It seems the church has some…